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December 21, 2006

Happy Winter Solstice!

The shortest day and longest night of the year comes to pass in the northern hemisphere today and signals the return of light - our march towards the apex in June when we reach the summit of light's reign on earth.

It is unfortunate that in the northern hemisphere and in the west we are so preoccupied with partying and the mad rush of buying gifts during a season that is ideally suited to going quietly into a cave and reflecting on the inner gifts we're given that nurture the soul and promote healthy growth of our spiritual nature. The ideal place for all this partying is the southern hemisphere where summer begins now, and the focus is on the growing season.

For the rest of us who live in regions where winter begins today, by continuously going out when we ought to be going in, we create a fertile soil for colds, flu, and other ailments. The body is designed to retreat in this season of cold and dark - but the material world has overtaken our spiritual one and made this a time of frantic consumption.

For those of you who are as turned off to what has been made of this blessed time of year as I am, please take some time this evening to offer your prayers of thanksgiving and reflection for the year that is passing away, and for the light that will now come again. We can each look into our own hearts to ask how we are contributing to the gift of life.

The true giving is not in presents that we buy at stores, but in the gifts of our spirit extended to one another without expectation. Those things we give of ourselves in gratitude and appreciation are the real presents, and as we shine our light unto the world during the longest night of the year, we remind one another that no matter how dark it looks outside - the light is returning once again.

Blessed Be!

KJ

December 20, 2006

Joseph Campbell's Ten Commandments for Reading Mythology



1. Read myths with the eyes of wonder: the myths transparent to their universal meaning, their meaning transparent to its mysterious source.
2. Read myths in the present tense: Eternity is now.
3. Read myths in the first person plural: the Gods and Goddesses of ancient mythology still live within you.
4. Any myth worth its salt exerts a powerful magnetism. Notice the images and stories that you are drawn to and repelled by. Investigate the field of associated images and stories.
5. Look for patterns; don't get lost in the details. What is needed is not more specialized scholarship, but more interdisciplinary vision. Make connections; break old patterns of parochial thought.
6. Resacralize the secular: even a dollar bill reveals the imprint of Eternity.
7. If God is everywhere, then myths can be generated anywhere, anytime, by anything. Don't let your Romantic aversion to science blind you to the Buddha in the computer chip.
8. Know your tribe! Myths never arise in a vacuum; they are the connective tissue of the social body which enjoys synergistic relations with dreams (private myths) and rituals (the enactment of myth).
9. Expand your horizons! Any mythology worth remembering will be global in scope. The earth is our home and humankind is our family.
10. Read between the lines! Literalism kills; Imagination quickens.

~Joseph Campbell Foundation

December 19, 2006

Reclaiming Education

Our educational system is completely inadequate for helping our children to become thinking, creative human beings. We are using Industrial Revolution models in an information age where kids have gone way beyond what is being taught to them in schools. The requirements are inadequate, and the classes are meaningless to the 21st Century for the most part. An article in the wonderful daily e-message called Charity Focus (www.charityfocus.org) is a very important opening to dialogue about what needs to be done. http://www.odemagazine.com/article.php?aID=3708

There are other wonderful groups seeking to revamp education, such as the George Lucas foundation, Edutopia (www.edutopia.org) to reflect what is needed now - but in the meantime, many of our bright children are being lost in the process.                                                                                                         

I gave a copy of The Secret ( http://thesecret.tv/home.html) to someone whose son is having problems in school and with life. The mother is a wonderfully bright and insightful person who has been doing everything possible to help him find his way. They viewed the DVD last night, and it truly spoke to him. It opened something inside that has been closed off, having no outlet for expression. The mother wrote to me this morning about how something shifted in him through the viewing, and this was my response. It applies to many of our kids.

"When I was younger and my children were young, one of my daughters could not "hear" me. She went on to become a Buddhist and had two wonderful teachers she related to. At one time, a boyfriend she had from the Buddhist circle came to our home - and we had a wonderful talk. He later asked her why she had to go anywhere else to get the wisdom she was seeking since  it was right there in her own home in me. The answer was...she had to separate herself from my view to find her own view so that the voice that came from her was authentically hers - not rehashing of mine.
And so it is with your son. He needs to find his voice through his own insights - and you are too close. So works like The Secret are essential for the young people. I sent you another e-mail that describes what is lacking in education today. Our children are STARVING. They are being fed cardboard when they need substance. They are being told to aspire to emptiness, when they yearn for meaning.
It is up to us to point the way and let them bloom into the magnificent souls they are meant to be. And once we do, our world will recover from this self-induced drugged state we all find ourselves in - and THEN the earth can once again become a Garden instead of a barren wasteland bound in confusion."
KJ

December 18, 2006

Overcoming Expectations

In an exploration of expectation, I’d like to share the following with you. I had lunch with some dear people - a couple who had fallen in love very quickly. They had gotten together and were now going through the tremendous fear of what this would mean. It seems that so many people long for love, deeply yearn for it, go out to find it – but when it is actually presented, are petrified by the ramifications.

As we get older, there is SO much more baggage that we carry. And when we have expectations about how a relationship should look, feel, be (i.e. a fantasy), we will always run from the reality because that is a day-to-day affair. Many of us have had our share of those who wanted relationships and were petrified once they saw what was actually in front of them.

Whether we are in or out of relationship, we are often loaded with past experiences and expectations that keep us bound to a concept of relationship rather than its actuality. Relationships are daily acts of living, loving, understanding, annoyance, forgiveness...the whole ball of wax. To think relationships of the heart will fulfill some fantasy projection is to miss the richness and texture of REAL involvement. And expecting relationships to be perfect is as misguided as expecting life to be perfect

When we can be open to giving and receiving, and to receive what is given with gratitude, that is a start to   a good relationship. By overcoming fears based on past disappointments in relationship, we signal our willingness to take what is given as an opportunity to stretch and grow even more. This allows for the building of a relationship. By overcoming expectations of what the relationship SHOULD be, and appreciation of what it actually is, there is room for tremendous growth and healing. Because when we overcome expectations, we make room for love, and love is the ultimate healer.

It requires courage to live. It requires maturity to face ourselves in others. The risks of relating are great, but so are the rewards.

KJ

December 17, 2006

For Those Who Enjoy Language (Or the Severe Distortion Thereof)

Those who jump off a bridge in Paris are in Seine.

A backward poet writes inverse.

A man's home is his castle, in a manor of speaking.

Dijon vu - the same mustard as before.

A hangover is the wrath of grapes.                                                          

Does the name Pavlov ring a bell?

When two egotists meet, it's an I for an I.

A bicycle can't stand on its own because it is two tired.

In democracy your vote counts. In feudalism your count votes.

A chicken crossing the road is poultry in motion.

If you don't pay your exorcist, you get repossessed.

Local Area Network in Australia: the LAN down under.

Every calendar's days are numbered.

He had a photographic memory that was never developed.

A plateau is a high form of flattery.

A midget fortune-teller who escapes from prison is a small medium at large.

Those who get too big for their britches will be exposed in the end.

Bakers trade bread recipes on a knead-to-know basis.

Santa's helpers are subordinate clauses.

Acupuncture is a jab well done.

December 16, 2006

Becoming

by Hal Manogue

Hope Is A Branch
From The Tree Of Giving
It’s Roots Filled With The Nectar
Of Belief
Blossoms Of Experience And Expression
Open With Vivid Colors Of Freedom
A Sign Of The Acute Beauty Within The Tree
Life Consumes The Blossoms And Grows In
Awareness
Developing Into Seeds Of Connection
That Fulfill The Journey To Wholeness
Becoming One
With The Tree With The Root
With The Blossoms
And With The Flower
That Is Life

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About The Author

Howard (Hal) Thomas Manogue, was born in Philadelphia in 1947 and is an aging indigo child, a now age term for misfit with an intuitive nature, a desire to know his truth and a gift of giving and sharing. Hal has been employed in the shoe industry for 35 years, and in 1982 brought the waffle cone to the USA from Denmark with his ice cream stores  “Finnicky’s” based In Nashville Tennessee.
He enjoys art, music, philosophy, psychology, nature and People.
Hal started writing poetry in 1996. His first book: Short Sleeves A Book For Friends, was self-published in 2003. His second book; Short Sleeves A Book For Friends 2006 Collection, was released in May 2006. His poems have been published by: Mystic Pop Magazine, Children Of The New Earth Magazine, Dream Weaver Magazine, Seasons Of The Soul Newsletters, Lightship News and Writers In The Sky Newsletters.  His 2007 Collection Short Sleeves A Book For Friends, will be released in January 2007.
He lives in Franklin Tennessee with wife Joanie, son Elliot, and daughter Megan
Visit: www.shortsleeves.net  or email hal@shortsleeves.net

December 15, 2006

An Awesome Christmas Story

We're so used to horror and mayhem bombarding us from the television set, newspapers, and on our Internet servers every day that we have become numbed to the good and noble acts that go on daily. Although seemingly implausible, this heartwarming story demonstrates the real meaning of Christmas, and miracles that do happen if only we will open our eyes to see, and our hands to give.
May the true blessing of this season touch us all.
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The old man sat in his gas station on a cold Christmas Eve.  He hadn't been anywhere in years since his wife had passed away.  He had no decorations, no tree, no lights.  It was just another day to him.  He didn't hate Christmas, just couldn't find a reason to celebrate.  There were no children in his life.  His wife had gone.  He was sitting there looking at the snow that had been falling for the last hour and wondering what it was all about when the door opened and a homeless man stepped through.  Instead of throwing the man out, George, Old George, as he was known by his customers, told the man to come and sit by the space heater and warm-up.

"Thank you, but I don't mean to intrude," said the stranger.  "I see you're busy. I'll just go."

"Not without something hot in your belly."  George turned and opened a wide mouth Thermos and handed it to the stranger.  "It ain't much, but it's hot and tasty.  Stew.  Made it myself.  When you're done there's coffee and it's fresh."

Just at that moment he heard the "ding" of the driveway bell  "Excuse me, be right back," George said. 

There in the driveway was an old '53 Chevy.  Steam was rolling out of the front.  The driver was panicked.
"Mister can you help me!" said the driver with a deep accent.  "My wife is with child and my car is broken."

George opened the hood.  It was bad.  The block looked cracked from the cold; the car was dead. "You ain't going no where in this thing," George said as he turned away.

"But mister.  Please help...."

The door of the office closed behind George as he went in  George went to the office wall and got the keys to his old truck, and went back outside.  He walked around the building and opened the garage, started the truck and drove it around to where the couple was waiting.
"Here, you can borrow my truck," he said.  "She ain't the best thing you ever looked at, but she runs real good."

George helped put the woman in the truck and watched as it sped off into the night. George turned and walked back inside the office. "Glad I loaned em the truck.  Their tires were shot too.  That 'ol truck has brand new tires . . ."

George thought he was talking to the stranger, but the man had gone.  The thermos was on the desk, empty with a used coffee cup beside it.

"Well, at least he got something in his belly," George thought.  George went back outside to see if the old Chevy would start.  It cranked slowly, but it started.  He pulled it into the garage where the truck had been.  He thought he would tinker with it for something to do.  Christmas Eve meant no customers.

He discovered the block hadn't cracked; it was just the bottom hose on the radiator.  "Well, I can fix this," he said to himself, so he put a new one on.  "Those tires ain't gonna get 'em through the winter either."  He took the snow treads off of his wife's old Lincoln.  They were like new and he wasn't going to drive the car.  As he was working on the car, he heard a shot being fired.  He ran outside and beside a police car an officer lay on the cold ground.

Bleeding from the left shoulder, the officer moaned, "Help me."  George helped the officer inside as he remembered the training he had received in the Army as a medic.  He knew the wound needed attention.

"Pressure to stop the bleeding," he thought.  The laundry company had been there that morning and had left clean shop towels.  He used those and duct tape to bind the wound.

"Hey, they say duct tape can fix anything," he said, trying to make the policeman feel at ease. "Something for pain," George thought.  All he had was the pills he used for his back.

"These ought to work."  He put some water in a cup and gave the policeman the pills.  "You hang in there. I'm going to get you an ambulance," George said.  But the phone was dead.  "Maybe I can get one of your buddies on that there talk box out in your police car."

He went out only to find that a bullet had gone into the dashboard, destroying the two-way radio.  He went back in to find the policeman sitting up.

Thanks," said the officer. "You could have left me there.  The guy that shot me is still in the area."

George sat down beside him.  "I would never leave an injured man in the Army, and I ain't gonna leave you."

George pulled back the bandage to check for bleeding.  "Looks worse than what it is. Bullet passed right through 'ya.  Good thing it missed the important stuff though  I think with time your gonna be right as rain."

George got up and poured a cup of coffee.  "How do you take it?" he asked. 

"None for me," said the officer. 

"C'mon and drink this.  Best in the city."  Then George added: "Too bad I ain't got no donuts."

The officer laughed and winced at the same time.

The front door of the station flew open. In burst a young man with a gun  "Give me all your cash!  Do it now!" the young man yelled.  His hand was shaking. 

George could tell that he had never done anything like this before.

"That's the guy that shot me!" exclaimed the officer.

"Son, why are you doing this?" asked George.  "You need to put the cannon away.  Somebody else might get hurt."

The young man was confused.  "Shut up old man, or I'll shoot you, too.  Now give me the cash!"

The cop was reaching for his gun.

"Put that thing away," George said to the cop  "We got one too many in here now."

He turned his attention to the young man.  "Son, it's Christmas Eve.  If you need the money, well then, here.  It ain't much but it's all I got.  Now put that pee shooter away."

George pulled $150 out of his pocket and handed it to the young man, reaching for the barrel of the gun at the same time.

The young man released his grip on the gun, fell to his knees, and began to cry.

"I'm not very good at this am I?  All I wanted was to buy something for my wife and son," he went on. "I've lost my job  My rent is due.  My car got repossessed last week."

George handed the gun to the cop.  "Son, we all get in a bit of squeeze now and then.  The road gets hard sometimes, but we make it through the best we can."

He got the young man to his feet, and sat him down on a chair across from the cop.  "Sometimes we do stupid things."  George handed the young man a cup of coffee.  "Being stupid is one of the things that makes us human.  Comin' in here with a gun ain't the answer.  Now sit there and get warm and we'll sort this thing out."

The young man had stopped crying.  He looked over to the cop.  "Sorry I shot you. It just went off. I'm sorry officer."

"Shut up and drink your coffee." the cop said.

George could hear the sounds of sirens outside.  A police car and an ambulance skidded to a halt. Two cops came through the door, guns drawn.

"Chuck! You OK?" one of the cops asked the wounded officer.

"Not bad for a guy who took a bullet.  How did you find me?"

"GPS locator in the car.  Best thing since sliced bread.  Did you see who shot you?" the other cop asked as he approached the young man.  Chuck answered him, "I don't know.  The guy ran off into the dark.  Just dropped his gun and ran."

George and the young man looked at each other, puzzled.
"That guy works here," the wounded cop continued, referring to the young man.

"Yep," George said.  "Just hired him this morning.  Boy lost his job."

The paramedics came in and loaded Chuck onto the stretcher.  The young man leaned over the wounded cop and whispered, "Why?"

Chuck just said, "Merry Christmas, boy.  And you too, George, and thanks for everything."

"Well, looks like you got one doozy of a break there.  That ought to solve some of your problems." George went into the back room and came out with a box  From the larger box he pulled out a ring box.  "Here you go.  Something for the little woman.  I don't think Martha would mind.  She said it would come in handy someday."

The young man looked inside to see the biggest diamond ring he ever seen.  "I can't take this," said the young man.  "It means something to you."

"And now it means something to you," replied George.  "I got my memories.  That's all I need."

George reached into the box again.  A toy airplane, a racing car and a little metal truck appeared next.  They were toys that the oil company had left for him to sell.

"Here's something for that little man of yours."  The young man began to cry again as he handed back the $150 that the old man had handed him earlier.

"And what are you supposed to buy Christmas dinner with?  You keep that, too.  Count it as part of your first week's pay." George said.  "Now git home to your family."

The young man turned with tears streaming down his face.  "I'll be here in the morning for work, if that job offer is still good."

"Nope.  I'm closed Christmas day," George said.  "See ya the day after."  George turned around to find that the stranger had returned.  "Where'd you come from?  I thought you left?"

"I have been here.  I have always been here," said the stranger.  "You say you don't celebrate Christmas. Why?"

"Well, after my wife passed away, I just couldn't see what all the bother was.  Puttin' up a tree and all seemed a waste of a good pine tree.  Bakin' cookies like I used to with Martha just wasn't the same by myself, and besides I was getting a little chubby."

The stranger put his hand on George's shoulder  "But you do celebrate the holiday, George.  You gave me food and drink and you warmed me when I was cold and hungry. The woman with child will bear a son, and he will become a great doctor.  The policeman you helped will go on to save 19 people from being killed by terrorists.  The young man who tried to rob you will become a rich man and share his wealth with many people.  That is the spirit of the season, and you keep it as good as any man." 

George was taken aback by all this stranger had said.  "And how do you know all this?" asked the old man.

"Trust me, George.  I have the inside track on this sort of thing.  And when your days are done you will be with Martha again." 

The stranger moved toward the door.  "If you will excuse me, George, I have to go now.  I have to go home where there is a big celebration planned." 

George watched as the man's old leather jacket and his torn pants turned into a white robe.  A golden light began to fill the room.  "You see, George, it's my birthday.  Merry Christmas."

Author Unknown -
    

December 14, 2006

Oh, Blessed Earth!

I had an amazing insight as I meditated and prayed for peace on earth the other day. I saw earth as a beautiful place, shining like no other in this space we call the galaxy.  We were all rushing to go "home" to a space beyond earth, moving out of the housing and "limitations" of our bodies. In this rush, we never recognized the incredible gifts that they are to us. Always wanting to be unbound by them, we were not remembering...not remembering.

And then I saw the earth that we defile, the bodies we defile, the corruption of what was given in Love - was given for expression of joy and co-creativity. WE are the corrupters...not the earth,. not our bodies. Our attitudes that bind us to separation, to duality, to seeing things in the black/white, better/worse, good/evil mentality - how foolish we are. How dangerously foolish we are.

And here, this precious earth, this precious earth. We are created from the substance of earth. This is the housing that holds these spirits that we are, enables us to walk amidst one another. We come as such a grand experiment, and walk in this time and place right now to see that these bodies, this earth, is in truth only made of light.

We have fostered doctrines of separation through our fear of entrapment. We have lost sight of  the natural splendor that we yearn for when we go into the areas of the world that we have not as yet contaminated. Who amongst us is not moved by a breathtaking sunset, or a majestic vista of natural scenic beauty?. The hand that created this sent us. And oh, my sisters and brothers, what have we done with this magnificent gift, this incredible opportunity? What have we created? What have we enhanced? 

I look at my arms and my hands. I look at my feet. Do I walk lightly upon this mother ship? Do I honor her with gratitude and remembrance of my true nature -  not separate from her, but as an aspect of her soul? Do I embrace her gifts, her shelter, her nourishment? Do I appreciate her light body, the body I am housed within? Or do I abuse and refuse to recognize the gift that she is...that I am...that we are?

This day at noon, I speak a love poem to my home, my earth, my being. She, you, us, cosmos, All That Is - we are One. And in this moment, I receive the blessing of remembrance... I open to the power of this time for change, for healing...and in this is the Transformation.

KJ

December 13, 2006

The Universal Symbol - Circle Cross

Renowned psychotherapist, Carl Jung, noted towards the end of his life when reviewing thousands of cases he had overseen that a particular theme recurred before healing.  Prior to the onset of healing, a high percentage of permanent cures seemed to share the same fundamental dream-image. This image was the universal symbol of the Circle with a Cross inlaid. Whether it was seen as a design, a circle of friends, or flowers arranged in that pattern, the same archetypal image was evident. It was always associated with re-balance of mental and physical health, and preceded the wholeness that was to come.

One physician whose wife suffered from deep psychosis read of this finding by Jung and decided to try a wild experiment. He cut a large Circle-Cross about four feet in diameter out of plywood, painted it with shining metallic paint and set it in a shaded room with a spotlight on it. He asked his wife to sit comfortably and contemplate the symbol from time to time throughout the day. Within the course of a few months, she was completely cured.

This universal symbol holds properties that return us to our spiritual center and re-pairs the fabric of our torn or wounded psyche.

KJ

December 12, 2006

The Piano Lesson

Wishing to encourage her young son's progress on the piano, a mother took the small boy to a Paderewski concert.  After they were seated, the mother spotted a friend in the audience and walked down the aisle to
greet her.

Seizing the opportunity to explore the wonders of the concert hall, the little boy rose and eventually explored his way through a door marked "NO ADMITTANCE."

When the house lights dimmed and the concert was about to begin, the mother returned to her seat and discovered that her son was missing.

Suddenly, the curtains parted and spotlights focused on the impressive Steinway on stage.  In horror, the mother saw her little boy sitting at the keyboard, innocently picking out  "Twinkle, Twinkle Little Star."

At that moment, the great piano master made his entrance, quickly moved to the piano, and whispered in the boy's ear, "Don't stop; "Keep playing." Then  leaning over, Paderewski reached down with his left hand and began  filling in a bass part.  Soon his right arm reached around to the other side of the child and he added a running obbligato.  Together, the old master and the young novice transformed a frightening situation into a wonderfully  creative experience. The audience was mesmerized.

That's the way it is with God. What we can accomplish on our own is hardly noteworthy.  We try our best, but the results aren't exactly graceful flowing music.

But with the hand of the Master, our life's work truly can be beautiful. The next time that you set out to accomplish great feats, listen  carefully. You can hear the voice of Spirit whispering in your ear, "Don't quit; "Keep playing." Feel loving arms around you. As the strong hands of your Creator are playing the concert of your life.

Remember, God doesn't call the equipped; God equips the called.
~Author Unknown