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December 31, 2006

A Prayer for Life

In their excellent book, The End of Suffering, Russell Targ and J.J. Hurtak, Ph.D, point to ways of finding inner peace and living without fear in times that are troubling. One of the suggestions is a positive affirmation by musician, Howard Wills. I think to end the old year and begin the new, this is very appropriate:

I bless this day and give thanks for my life. I forgive completely all people who have hurt me. I ask all people I have hurt to please forgive me.

I apologize to myself for my wrongs to myself and my wrongs to others.

I apologize for all my hurts or wrongs to all life forms.

With this release - freedom, peace, power, and new life. I bless all creation in the entire universe and I fill the entire universe with my love. I love and bless the earth, all life, and all humanity. I love, bless, and respect the visible and the invisible. I rejoice and give thanks for my new life, power, and health. I give complete blessing and love to all life, always.

December 30, 2006

Diaries of Dogs and Cats

Excerpts from a Dog's Daily Diary:

8:00 am Dog food! My favorite thing!

9:30 am A car ride! My favorite thing!

9:40 am A walk in the park! My favorite thing!

10:30 am Got rubbed and petted! My favorite thing!

12:00 pm Lunch! My favorite thing!

1:00 pm Played in the yard! My favorite thing!

3:00 pm Wagged my tail! My favorite thing!

5:00 pm Milk bones! My favorite thing!

7:00 pm Got to play ball! My favorite thing!

8:00 pm Wow! Watched TV with my master! My favorite thing!

11:00 pm Sleeping on the bed! My favorite thing!


Excerpts from a Cat's Daily Diary:

Day 683 of my captivity: My captors continue to taunt me with bizarre
little dangling objects. They dine lavishly on fresh meat, while the other
inmates are fed hash or some sort of dry nuggets. Although I make my
contempt for the rations perfectly clear, I nevertheless must eat something
in order to keep up my strength. The only thing that keeps me going is my
dream of escape. In an attempt to disgust them, I once again vomit on the
floor.

Today I decapitated a mouse and dropped its headless body at their feet.
I had hoped this would strike fear into their hearts, since it clearly
demonstrates what I am capable of. However, they merely made condescending
comments about what a "good little hunter" I am. The audacity! There was
some sort of assembly of their accomplices tonight. I was placed in
solitary confinement for the duration of the event. However, I could hear
the noises and smell the food. I overheard that my confinement was due to
the power of "allergies." I must learn what this means, and how to use it
to my advantage.

Today I was almost successful in an attempt to assassinate one of my
tormentors by weaving around his feet as he was walking. I must try this
again tomorrow -- but at the top of the stairs.

I am convinced that the other prisoners here are flunkies and snitches.
The dog receives special privileges. He is regularly released --and seems
to be more than willing to return. He is obviously retarded! The bird has
got to be an informant. I observe him communicating with the guards
regularly. I am certain that he reports my every move. The captors have
arranged protective custody for him in an elevated cell, so he is
safe....... for now...

December 29, 2006

Charity Focus: Teach for America

Charityfocus.org provides an amazing daily inspirational e-mail that includes some of the valuable things that are happening on this planet. If you are tired of hearing about the latest murder, war, and all the other horrors occurring on our planet, take advantage of services such as this one that are free. Charityfocus.org is an antidote to burnout - and the following is one of the many, many messages they transmit daily that reminds us of all the good humanity is capable of providing. You can subscribe to this free daily service by going to www.charityfocus.org

I believe you have something invaluable - the perspective that comes from inexperience. The world needs your inexperience. It needs you before you accept the status quo, before you are plagued by the knowledge of what is impossible. --Wendy Kopp, Founder - Teach For America

Inspiration of the Day:
Wendy Kopp proposed starting a sort of Peace Corps for teachers in 1989 -- a program that would recruit fellow Ivy Leaguers to teach for two years in the nation's toughest schools, and got a surprising response: "My dear Ms. Kopp, you are quite evidently deranged." Today, Teach for America, as Kopp's program came to be known, is one of the most respected initiatives in American education. This June, 10 percent of the graduating class of Yale University applied to the program, which accepts only about 1 of every 8 applicants. According to a 2005 survey by an independent research firm, 75 percent of principals who were surveyed consider TFA members more effective than other beginning teachers. In a recent commencement speech, Kopp shares the inspiring guiding principles of Teach for America. [ more ]

Be The Change:
Do something you value this week in which you go beyond the commonly understood notion of what is possible or feasible.

December 28, 2006

Food, Health, and changes for 2007

Someone wrote and asked me about an alternative health newsletter, and what I thought about it. My response was that I think it is vital for all of us to become informed about health and how much we are responsible for it. If we listen to ads for drugs that are bombarding us on television, we are overwhelmed by information that is intended to "sell" us. If you think about it, it is ludicrous that we even allow those ads on TV. The ones who should be doing the prescribing are the physicians, but drug companies have found that they have a billion dollar business through pushing their drugs straight to the consumer. Unfortunately, most of what we are "fed" is based on the profit motive rather than the prophet motive. And therefore, it is important for each of us to extricate ourselves from this tic-tock mentality, and find our way through the maze of mine fields related to health, lifestyle, and wellbeing.
I think the more information we have that can help us avoid the standard response of drug and surgery as the only solution to our health issues, the better. I also think it is VERY important for us to start the new year  - and maybe even end this year - on changing our diets to reflect lighter foods that allow the light to be absorbed in our bodies. Most of us eat much too much - and we eat foods that are not light transmitters. Since the body is a machine that needs the right fuel to operate, we have to cooperate by making sure we put just the right amount of food in of the right source. Then we can have a little treat now and then because we have not misused food. Unfortunately, most of us use food for reasons other than fuel, and therein lies the health problems.
In my channeled work from 1990-91, A Call To Prayer, I was told about the importance of food to the body, and how to choose food. I didn't want to hear what I was being told and stopped listening, but the information was valid and is transforming if we will pay attention. I actually pulled it out of my files not long ago and have been putting a portion up every day on one of my blog sites because it is that important, and I want people to be able to have the information that is potentially life altering. Now, I have to follow the advice myself. http://kathleenjacoby.blogs.com/calltoprayer/
I have plans to introduce a discussion group on this blog site in the New Year, where we can discuss some of the things we'd like to follow in order to change the dynamics of our lives. It is very apparent that if we keep doing the same thing, we are going to keep getting the same result, and if we are the authors of our lives, it's time to begin a new chapter with different ways of doing what we do so that the outcome will shift in favor of what we WANT TO SEE, rather than what we've continually projected - even if those projections have been subconscious reactions. This requires that we be faithful on a daily basis to a new approach that won't take much time, but requires repetition and steadfastness so that it becomes a new habit.
I know that I need to make some shifts in the way I do life, and food is part of it. I would like to invite you to join me in this journey of transformation. I think that if we can engage the kids and one another in doing this - realizing that we really CAN take everything that has happened and use it for good - we will see amazing results in 2007!
KJ

December 27, 2006

Winter and Self-Reflection

We tend to see winter as reflective of death, and often something or someone does go out of our life at this powerful time of year. The underworld retrieves that which it gave in spring, the great cycle of return now underway.

As the landscape stands stark and colorless, contrast is evident, and we must pick up the palate of our inner world. Rather than deny the dark and cold of the external world, we need to move into the warmth of soul for the illumination we seek. As projects or loved ones recede, we are given an opportunity to recount ourselves. If we've been on a blazing marathon, this transition may be difficult at first, because we have to stop. Winter does that to us. When we don't pay attention to the subtle clues, the body is under attack. Winter puts us on notice that everything is exposed. The trees and landscape are pared back, only the sturdy wood remaining through the onslaught of the elements.

So we, too, may have harsh weather, and we must bear through it. When it is lovely outside, we have no reason to sit at home and ponder the state of our union, and I have noted in the process of unfoldment that it is important to avoid avoidance.

If we insist on ignoring the external signals, winter will bring stillness to our attention. We live in a society that doesn't make time for siestas, so we must carve the quiet time - the reflective time, out of our schedule as an act of discipline. And when the pain or hurt or isolation creeps in, we must find the gift in it, for at the root, winter leads to spring. And it is the quality of our insights bound in winter that will dictate the seeds we plant as the new season unfolds.
KJ

December 26, 2006

A Tiny Act of Kindness

A tiny act of kindness that made the world a little nicer.

It was evening rush hour on Pacific Coast Highway in Redondo Beach, CA. Drivers lined up from traffic signal to traffic signal, anxious to get home.

On a side street merging into this Highway was a timid driver, afraid to edge in and no-one let her in. Some of the drivers backed up behind her loudly blasted their horns.

This made her more upset and nervous.

To the right of this side street, the signal on Pacific Coast Highway turned red and traffic stopped. A driver who saw what was happening to this woman stopped a few car lengths behind the car in front of him and motioned to her to pull in front of him.

She quickly did and as he waited two more cars dashed in behind her.

No-one thanked him so I acknowledged his good deed. He smiled and said he felt it was the right thing to do.

While the woman he’d helped waited for the signal to turn green she sank into her driver’s seat as her body went limp. And she was deeply relieved. Although this thoughtful man couldn’t see it her body language expressed her gratitude loud and clear.

If you’ve been in a traffic situation like she was in, you know how scary it can be. But this little act of kindness allowed her to safely reach her home and to tell others about it.

When people hear about an act of kindness such as this it helps to restore their belief in humanity and it also encourages them to do something nice for someone else.

And the kindness spreads. Someone does something nice for you and in turn you’re likely to do something nice for that person or for someone else.

If you doubt the affect one small event can have, consider road rage. It often begins with a petty incident and it quickly grows into something horrible. The news media shows us the brutality and the blood and from a single incident, it feels as if danger lurks everywhere.

Soon there is widespread anxiety as people discuss the horror that took place. We become more apprehensive and feel less safe.

Yet a simple act of kindness could also have a widespread affect. But the media seldom reports good deeds because there are no colorful “visuals.” However this good deed was shared with you and perhaps you’ll tell others. And I’ve put it on the Internet to reach a global audience.

It’s like a pebble that lands in a pond and causes a ripple in each direction. No-one knows how far those ripples will travel but they will affect everything they touch along the way.

Success Tip of the Week: Today commit an act of kindness and create that ripple. As the great Chinese philosopher Lao Tzu said 2,400 years ago, “The journey of a thousand miles begins with a single step.”

-From Kazantoday.com

December 24, 2006

You Are A Blessing

   

    A water bearer in India had two large pots, each hung on opposite ends of a pole that he carried across his neck. One of the pots had a crack in it, and while the other pot was perfect and always delivered a full portion of water at the end of the long walk from the stream to the master’s house, the cracked pot arrived only half full.  For a full two years this went on daily, with the bearer delivering only one and a half pots full of water in his master’s house.

     Of course, the perfect pot was proud of its accomplishments, perfect to the end for which it was made.  But the poor cracked pot was ashamed of its own imperfection, and miserable that it was able to accomplish only half of what it had been created to do.  After two years of what it perceived to be a bitter failure, it spoke to the water bearer one day by the stream.
"I am ashamed of myself, and I want to apologize to you."
"Why?" asked the bearer.  "What are you ashamed of?"

"I have been able for these past two years to deliver only half my load because this crack in my side causes water to leak out all the way back to your master’s house. Because of my flaws, you have to do all of this work, and you don't get full value from your efforts."

    The water bearer felt sorry for the old cracked pot, and in his compassion he explained, "As we return to the master’s house, I want you to notice the beautiful flowers along the path."
     Indeed, as they went up the hill, the old cracked pot took notice of the sun warming the beautiful wild flowers on the side of the path, and this cheered it some.  But at the end of the trail, it still felt bad because it had leaked half its load, and so again the Pot apologized to the bearer for its failure.

     The bearer said to the pot, "Did you notice that there were flowers only on your side of your path, but not on the other pot’s side?  That's because I have always known about your flaw, and I took advantage of it.  I planted flower seeds on your side of the path, and every day while we walk back from the stream, you've watered them.  For two years I have been able to pick these beautiful flowers to decorate my master’s table.  Without you being just the way you are, he would not have this beauty to grace his house."

     Each of us has our own unique flaws.  We’re all cracked pots.  But if we will allow it, our flaws are used to grace life's table. In Gods great economy, nothing goes to waste.  Don't be afraid of your flaws.  Acknowledge them, and you too can be the cause of beauty. Know that in our weakness we find our strength.

-Author Unknown

December 23, 2006

Laughter during holiday frenzy

In the Spirit of Christmas - I feel it my duty to pass along sites that go from the absurd to the endearing for holiday smiles:

http://www.lulliloodesign.com/figaro_tunes.htm

http://www.thecompassgroup.biz/merryxmas.swf

http://www.terrisfunny.com/xmasflash1/frosty.swf

http://www.dobhran.com/greetings/GRxmas11.htm

and for added silliness:

Christmas Carols for the Disturbed
       
        * 1. Schizophrenia --- Do You Hear What I Hear?
       
        * 2. Multiple Personality Disorder --- We Three Kings Disoriented Are
       
        * 3. Dementia --- I Think I'll be Home for Christmas
       
        * 4. Narcissistic --- Hark the Herald Angel s Sing About Me
       
        * 5. Manic --- Deck the Halls and Walls and House and Lawn and Streets and
        Stores and Office and Town and Cars and Busses and Trucks and Trees
        and.....
       
        * 6. Paranoid --- Santa Claus is Coming to Town to Get Me
       
        * 7. Borderline Personality Disorder --- Thoughts of Roasting on an Open
        Fire
       
        * 8. Personality Disorder --- You Better Watch Out, I'm Gonna Cry, I'm
        Gonna Pout, Maybe I'll Tell You Why
       
        * 9. Attention Deficit Disorder --- Silent night, Holy, oooh look at the
        froggy - can I have a chocolate, why is France so far
        Away?
       
        * 10. Obsessive Compulsive Disorder --Jingle Bells, Jingle Bells, Jingle
        Bells, Jingle Bells, Jingle Bells, Jingle Bells, Jingle Bells, Jingle
        Bells, Jingle Bells, Jingle Bells, Jingle Bells, Jingle Bells, Jingle
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December 22, 2006

Last Minute Holiday Fudge

Do you need a last minute addition to your holiday gift list, and don't want to fight the crowds at the mall? Try this fast and easy recipe for fudge.

It only takes 5 minutes of cooking time, and is a real crowd pleaser.

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1 can (6 oz) evaporated milk

1  and 2/3 cups sugar

1/2 teaspoon salt

1/2 cup chopped walnuts (optional)

1 and 1/2 cups diced marshmallows

1 and 1/2 cups semisweet chocolate pieces

1 teaspoon vanilla extract

Grease a 9 by 9 by 1 and 3/4 inch pan. In medium saucepan, combine evaporated milk with sugar and salt. Bring to boiling. Reduce heat, and simmer, stirring constantly for 5 minutes. Remove from heat. Add remaining ingredients, stirring until marshmallows melt. Pour into prepared pan; let cool. To serve, cut in squares. Everyone will think it took you ages to prepare, and you can smile knowingly. How easy was that!?

Charities - Beware the Telemarketer!

by Judge Stanley Peele

Lately, a lot of people have called our home asking for money for various charities. Our response is to quickly and politely decline to donate money that way. Evidently, our response is appropriate. It turns out that the telemarketers are collecting a larger slice of the pie than they did a few years ago. The latest figures reveal that, on an average, the telemarketer gets 48% of the pie. This makes Elaine Marshall, the NC Secretary of State, "uncomfortable."

She advises people to quiz anyone who calls to ask for money. I disagree. The telemarketer wants to engage the donor in conversation; the more they talk, the more likely the donor will feel obligated to make a donation. I feel that donating money in response to phone calls is a poor way to make charitable contributions.

Some organizations capitalize on the on certain "buzz" words, such as "children" various kinds of law enforcement personnel, or firefighters.

The internet has several web pages that can help a person decide what charities are reliable. One of the best ones is the "Charity Navigator" (CN). It reveals a great deal of financial information about charities; and ranks them from zero stars (the most questionable) to four stars (the most reliable).

I will start with organizations that are highly rated by CN. Of special note are the organizations that do not accept any federal or state funds and yet still keep their fund-raising costs to a minimum. Here are three of them: First, the most efficient one is the New American Foundation which spent only 4% of its budget on fund-raising. Unbelievably good! Next is the Animal Welfare Institution, spending only 1.1% on fund-raising. Finally, the American Endowment Fund spent only 3.1%. All of these are ranked 4-star.

Here are six well-known organizations that CN gives a 4-star ranking:

Nature Conservancy, Doctors Without Borders, Oxfam, Direct Relief International, Food Bank of Central and Eastern North Carolina, and the American Red Cross. The first five have had a high rating for years; and it is good to see the Red Cross regain its ranking again.

Lesser ratings were given to the following: United Way of Central Carolina had a 3-star ranking. I was disappointed to see that the Heifer Project International only had a two-star ranking for efficiency and a 3-star ranking overall. The American Cancer Society has a 2-star ranking, as does Habitat For Humanity-Orange, and Stop Hunger Now, the Raleigh based charity. However, Stop Hunger Now has a 4-star rating as to efficiency.

CN gave an even lower ranking to The March of Dimes. They spent 17.5% of their expenses on fund-raising, and received only a one-star rating. Their president earned a salary of $467,500.

Now let’s go to lowest end of the scale. According to CN, here is a list of four Organizations, followed by the per-cent of their budget that is spent on fund-raising:

The American Foundation For Disabled Children: 84.2% for fund-raising.

The American Deputy Sheriffs’ Assn. spent 89.1% for fund-raising.

The Association For Firefighters and Paramedics: 89.85% on fundraising.

The Committee For Missing Children spends 90.4% of its funds on fund-raising!!  Unbelievable!  All four organizations have a zero star rating.

Another good internet site that gives pertinent information on charities is Give.org.

They give the following facts about the NAACP: They spent 9% of their budget on fund-raising, and spent 24% of their budget on administrative costs. Give.org reports that the NAACP did not meet 3 standards of accountability, having to do with their financial records. The NAACP did not report the salary of the new president; however the past president made $269,600 per year.

Give.org reports that the American Friends’ Service Committee spends 13% of its expenses for fund-raising, and spend 7% on administration. They met all the standards of accountability. Their CEO gets $166,250 per year.

The Office of the Secretary of State of NC (SOC) has just published its report for the year leading up to July 1, ‘06. It is 273 pages long. If you are serious about checking up on your charities, read this report.

Those organizations that chose to hire professionals for fund-raising sometimes received the full amount; and some got nothing at all. The report first lists all the charities that filed with the SOC. If you will skip over this and go on to the last parts of the report, you will read some shocking information. You will see that many people in NC donate money to telemarketers, yet sometimes only a small portion of the money reaches the charity.

According to the report, professional fund-raisers of various fraternal orders of police (in different locations) gave only 24% to 38% to the charities they represented. The American Lung Assn. fund-raisers collected $1,045,000 but gave only $46,600 to the charity. Fund-raisers received $285,000 for the Paralyzed Veterans of America, and paid nothing to the charity.

This was shocking to me.

Please look up these internet sources before you donate to a charity.